Why are people afraid to get behind the wheel?

To get the right vehicle control, not everyone immediately gets behind the wheel and confidently dissects along the roads. Starting hard drive almost everything and are struggling with difficulties all differently. Someone takes a few trips to adapt to road conditions, and somebody will not be enough a few months behind the wheel. Where does the fear of driving and how to overcome this barrier? Here is an example from personal experience: When I first put behind the wheel, I was about 6. The pedals I have not got out, but gladly took to turn the steering wheel on that chubby-Rafiq reacted instantly - rode toward the bushes. They all laughed, saying, girly and not realized that she got in his hands. The following experiment was obtained in 12 years - I moved well and went forward, but until shift gear, my mother's Tavria suffered on the tree. And again it ended in a joke, they say, too early yet. And fear no no! Only disappointment, why do not give me to try again? I can not fix the problem, why the first attempt to put an end to training? Of experience driving school can collect the material in a separate article, so that the judge about it before practice driving. Instructor, unfortunately, did not care for "free" students, so the exams I did not know some of the exercises. Not just from him could hear, they say, with the girl what to take, will deal on the road, when the ride will be. And my fellow students, who have never had affairs with cars, gave ... the printed manual, which was written as to touch and change gear! And what kind of decent driving here can we talk? With barely passing all the exams and get right, I begged her brother's car and drove into the city. Any tricks of the culture of driving me, of course, no one has taught, however, having strayed from a friend of his constituency, I had an accident. Fault was mine - when leaving a location nearby and I stood behind the jeep, which soon gave way. I went right behind him, hoping that I will miss, but the driver of the six went smoothly after the jeep, and my nine pecked side bumper of his car ... No one was hurt, so we agreed on a certain amount of money and went home. Soon after this incident have learned almost everything I sawed all and sundry, they say, where you sit behind the wheel, a monkey with a grenade, a dangerous driver who never learned to drive, etc. Again, this is familiar to her disappointment - Please give me a second chance to give correct! As stated in a proverb - if you ever call a man a pig, he zahryukaet. Here I am "zahryukala, doubted that I could ever drive well and not be afraid to ride. It was only when I got my own car, I am against all sat down again behind the wheel. True, some time I had in addition to difficulties with management and getting used to the atmosphere on the way to deal with internal fears. The main reason why people are afraid to get behind the wheel - the fear to get into an accident. True, the reason for this fear may be different, I had the trifling accident to realize the danger of the vehicle, and some do not understand their responsibility after an accident with the victims. After consulting with a psychologist, I learned that there are different fears. Base, driven by self-preservation instinct, helping the driver, protects him from hasty action that could lead to an accident. Post-traumatic stress is a consequence of a car accident - or the driver himself had an accident, or someone from his family suffered. It occurs as a result of the emotions and fueled by fear for his and others' lives, guilt, empathy and sympathy. In the second case the person is best to seek the help of a psychologist as well as to cope with post-traumatic pain is almost impossible. And while the driver is under his authority, he either overpowers himself while driving or reduce driving time, and even completely throws the car. Get rid of this fear can help a good specialist. The technique is to restore the memory inception phobia. Psychologist with a driver looking for a way to relive the same feelings that arose during the trauma inflicted. Each needs its own approach: someone draws their own, someone describes his words, someone makes a dialogue with him. These actions are aimed at the driver looked at him from the side, pulled away from him in that position sense acuity decreases. A man relives the emotions that had long held back, and then let it down to the fact that they are not dangerous, but rather useful. Having lived through again once chopped off of hidden feelings, a man runs out of them opens the cage. As a result, internal stress disappears, the driver feels revitalized and ready to once again get behind the wheel without fear of feelings of panic.