Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Aggressors on the road: stay alive

In news feeds are increasing reports of sudden bursts of aggression on the roads, which sometimes come to an end, even a shootout. The more loaded the streets, the more conflict situations - all in a hurry about their business, nobody wants to back down, trying to escape for a few seconds ahead. How to avoid conflict with the aggressors on the road? Every motorist faced with bodaniem "in the tube: Who does not want to indulge in a row, the fear of losing cherished seconds, and someone on the contrary does not pass in front of the offender, avoid a traffic jam on the side of the road or oncoming lane. Or when the flow is going the same speed, but some drivers are constantly rushing from the series in a series, believing that he was going faster. Irritate each other and left a number of motorists who are forced to slow down in front of less than fast cars, overtaking slow-moving vehicle - the first starts of impatience cuddle closely behind and flashing high beam, while the second is nervous and clicks on the brakes to increase the distance. After raising the penalty for pedestrian nepropusk relationship between road users even more strained. Sometimes comes up to the incidents when a driver somewhere in a hurry, and customize the pedestrian signal. Aggressive behavior does not depend on the type or value of the car, although there is a well-established with the 90-ies myth that a big black jeep ride bandits. Someone even made a special takes a huge expensive car to the road he was respected and missed. But statistics on such motorists are not kept, and in opposition to this cliche can mention a lot of stories about how the luxury Mercedes gave way to an old nine. Or stories about how drivers Zhiguli a cake ready to break, if only to keep out in front of a Bentley. Some people buy a self-defense, and others - attacks. On the forums car clubs many brave, that carry with them the gas or traumatic pistols. However, not ready mentally to the treatment arms may themselves suffer from it. Therefore, salespeople in the stores of weapons at the request of the buyer to pick up a gun, "which is convenient to carry in the glove compartment, first interested in whether he can shoot the man. If the driver hesitates, then it is better to take a bat - cheap and not so traumatic. But do not be arming to the teeth before you leave for work, because in most cases coming out of machines for sorting out the drivers just leaving. Either someone one leaves the place of the conflict - very few people want to communicate with the subsequent red tape in the police and the insurance company, and outbursts of anger pass quickly. If you go quietly behind the wheel, no one cut and behave predictably, the chances of running into an aggressor rather small. Seeing the car behaves poorly on the road, better give way or stay away if possible. Do not provoke nervous drivers obscene gestures and even looks at them, ignore all their attempts to get in touch with you. Elena, a psychologist: "Being in a car people do not see any other drivers and can take advantage of the anonymity and protection door locks. A similar phenomenon can be often seen in the Internet, when the conversation begins to threaten the party has a terrible massacre of opponents, convinced that he was not found. For example, in-store queues, fights and verbal conflicts occur much less frequently, because there are people watching each other's eyes. On the road you may get caught a driver with uncontrollable bouts of rage, such people are able to see it through, even at the cost of repairing his car. Cause of aggression are a constant stress state in which the man in the mirror and it is even more fueled by negativity. " The result of "bodaniya" in the tube may be of minor accidents, followed by the agonizing wait for traffic police for registration of scratches and travel insurance company. Stand whether this proof to someone of their correctness, or better yet give way to the boor and forget after a few seconds of a skirmish? The best way out - not to succumb to provocations and to maintain composure, as the nerves heal now expensive. Text: Olga Zabelkina.

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